A good Appointment ..... Sorta?

So today I had my yearly check with the Gyno and I brought up my lose in January I was told at the time that I had an eptopic but after disscussing the facts with her she dosent think it was Eptopic at all that my previous doc was wrong, that the baby/ies were in the right place but that the preganacy failed, it dose however leave me with lingering thoughts and questions. Like what if we had waited another week or 2 would things have been ok? should i have not taken his word for it and waited? my numbers for those of you who know what they mean started at a hcg of 18 then 4 days later and Hcg of 200 and the day of my loss I was told that in 2wks I had only moved to 279 sooo I suppose that means the pg was failing. I feel it wieghing more heavaly on my mind since my due date was September 22nd and that date is aprouching fast. I feel good though knowing I am healthy and can have another baby if I so disire . for the time being thou we are concentrating all our time on the other kids.