Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Jamine's MRI and a Rant

Well its been a bit since I have written here time just gets away from me.Jazmine had Her MRI finally and I am waiting for the Results of that and to find out where they will send her I have been told now that it will either be UCSF or UC Davis.... I really want this to be taken care of and done. Of course if we are sent to SF we were going to stay with a friend of mine there but I wont be doing that now I found out that Friend Betrayed my trust, my girls Bio dad has nothing to do with them he gave them up when they were 4 and 1 yr well I found out that this friend of mine was telling them information about Jazmine (Bio dad's family) her neck ect and these things were not to be told to them its none of there buissness I know you are probably thinking how could I be so cold not to include them, so I guess I will give a little backround on him and his family, they are the type of people who use someone play on there sympathy to get what they can and when they get found out the drop that person and move to the next sucker.....in 8 yrs they have not bothered to be involved with the girls except when they got a wild hair and decided that now was a good time to butt in, of course I put my foot down and said no more especially when they began defending the actions of the Bio dad, just so many things wrong with them and I dont want them any where near the girls, after all where was he when they had a belly ache or skinned there knee or the first day of school.......sure as heck not here helping them being a dad nope he tucked his tail and Ran! So I am Angry no make the IRATE that this so called Friend of mine had the nerve to go behind my back and give them information they have no right to!

1 comment:

Helene said...

Oh no Veronica, thats awful. I completely understand. My ex husband doesn't have anything to do with my 3 eldest either and the thought that a so called friend was passing on information to him and his family would make me so angry, and they haven't even done anything against me, they are actually quite nice, its just that betrayal of trust!!
I suppose in a way, if it was REALLY serious Jazmine's Dad might have a right to know, but only in extreme circumstances, but it should come through you, not by a third party!!
I can see why you are so upset.
Give Jazmine a big hug from me, and i hope the results give you the all clear or diagnoses something easily treatable.
Hugs hun

Helene